Dear Reader,
How many times have you loved someone with your whole heart... and quietly kept a part of it guarded, just in case?
How many times have you said, "I'm over it," while your body still flinched at their name?
Given love freely... but flinched at receiving it?
Kept giving—to your partner, your friends, your family—until there was nothing left for you?
Let your heart close, just a little more, with every disappointment... and called it wisdom?
If this feels familiar, I hope you'll hear this first:
Your heart isn't broken.
It's been protecting you.
And perhaps now, it's ready for something different.
Many of us were never taught how to protect our hearts.
We only learned how to armor them.
To stay guarded so we'd never get hurt again.
To give so much love to everyone else that there was none left to give ourselves.
To mistake numbness for healing.
But eventually...
that armor stops keeping the hurt out.
It quietly begins keeping the love out, too.
I know this journey personally. There were seasons of my own life when I believed guarding my heart was the only way to survive. Over time, I discovered that healing wasn't about becoming less loving—it was about finally including myself in the love I so freely gave to everyone else.
If you've been experiencing...
- difficulty receiving love, help, or care—even when you need it most
- a heart that feels a little more guarded with every passing year
- exhaustion from giving love you never allow yourself to receive
- old heartbreak that still visits you, even years later
- a quiet fear that opening up again simply means getting hurt again
...this week's podcast journey was created for you.